In addition to duties, parents have the right to their own needs.

In addition to duties, parents have the right to their own needs.

In addition to duties, parents have the right to their own needs.

All articles and literature on the care of toddlers, are devoted mainly to children's needs. For this reason, newly-minted parents may be very worried about the fact that they simply can not cope with their child. Of course, the interests of the child are in the first place. But parents must organize their lives in such a way that they have not only duties, but also rights. Undoubtedly, upbringing is daily hard work. However, do not forget about your own interest, and children should be accustomed to this fact.

You can try to guess with what temperament the child will be born, but it is impossible to "order" the desired. Some parents would like to have obedient, quiet children, who are called "quiet." Many of this category of adults simply can not cope with an energetic jerk. Others, on the contrary, do not have problems with the mobile and naughty baby and do not want to see him "quiet". Each parent has his own character. However, since you can not influence the nature conceived by you, take the child as it was born, and stop worrying that it will not meet your expectations.

Parental responsibilities are hard work, infringement of one's own interests for many years.

Caring for baby requires a lot of time and effort. It is necessary to feed it in time, to bathe, it is necessary to wash clothes, answer the endless "why", play with it, read books, attend children's performances, circus, zoo, and also morning performances in the garden and school. In the evening, when you especially feel tired after a day's work, you need to help prepare lessons, and instead of going on a visit to friends, you should go to the parents' meeting in school.

Most of the family budget is spent on children, they take up almost all free time. Sometimes you even envy those who have not yet kids, but, nevertheless, to exchange roles do not agree for anything in the world. And all because kids are your continuation, in these little men you see yourself as a child and, as it were, live with them again. If you love your kids, then despite the hard work, you will experience the sweet joy of fatherhood and motherhood. You will do everything to ensure that a worthy person from your child has grown up. Children are the continuation of our own lives, only in them we are truly immortal.